Selfcare Before Holidays
Easing into the Holiday Season with mindful selfcare to make the holidays merrier and brighter for others and ourselves too;-)
Think of October as your personal recharge month. Use this time to reflect on the year so far and plan for the busy months ahead. Start with simple self-care practices: Enjoy quiet moments with a good book, take leisurely walks to admire the fall colors or indulge in a hobby you love. These small acts of self-kindness can help replenish your energy and provide a sense of calm.
Planning early for the holidays can also alleviate stress. Making a list of to-do tasks — such as gift shopping, meal planning and organizing gatherings — spreading them out over the next few weeks and tackling these tasks gradually will make the process more enjoyable.
Taking care of yourself now ensures you can fully embrace the holiday spirit when it arrives. Prioritize your well-being this October and approach the upcoming season with a renewed sense of peace and joy.
Thinking about it now, which self-care rituals will you do during the fall season to help you recharge and prepare for the holidays? I’d love to hear your thoughts and maybe even get some new ideas to share with others!
Seasonal Shift
Autumn is most beloved for its breathtaking foliage, soothing warm scents and much needed almost-end-of-the-year family and friends gatherings. It is an equally wonderful time to purchase or sell real estate. Read more to find out why.
As autumn arrives, the real estate market shifts into its serious phase. Gone are the casual lookers; now, buyers and sellers engage with clear intent. Whether you know a home buyer or seller, this is the moment to shine. A clear purpose drives those who are entering the real estate scene in the months of October, November and December.
For sellers, it’s the chance to showcase a home to motivated individuals who are ready to make a move. With the activities of summer behind them, potential buyers are fully committed to their home search. Your listing won’t drown in a sea of options; it’ll stand out as a genuine contender for those who are eagerly seeking a new abode.
Buyers, get ready for a treat. With fewer properties on the market compared to the bustling spring and summer, your choices are focused and streamlined. The homes you encounter will have owners who mean business—they’re diving into the market, not just dipping their toes. This heightened seriousness means smooth negotiations, purposeful decisions and an overall streamlined process.
The next time you are talking with a friend or neighbor who is serious about moving, call Sunflower Peak Estates immediately. Together, we’ll make sure they fall in love with their next home.
Making A Move Easy on Kids, and Yourself.
With many families opting to move during summer and getting ready for back to school, here are a few to keep in mind for the young ones for a smoother move…
A Move Affects Children and Adults Differently.
Most often, a move represents an important step forward for the adults in the family because of a new job, promotion, transfer to a different office, or financial success has allowed them to buy a more comfortable house in a different neighborhood.
Moving from one house to another is seldom easy and enjoyable for adults (who chose to move), and can be especially troubling for children (who prefer to stay where they are). But if parents are mindful of their children’s concerns and needs, they can minimize distress and discomfort.
Describe the move in a truthful, positive way and plan together to make the new setting feel like home:
• Ask about their favorite activities (e.g., soccer), and plan to investigate youth programs in the new community.
• Ask what they like best about the present house (e.g., the swimming pool) and assure them that you’ll find a place for them to swim in the new town.
• Ask what they like best about the neighborhood (e.g., their friends), and make plans to invite the children on the block to a Welcome To the Neighborhood Party once you’ve settled in.
• Ask what they like the most about their school (e.g., their teacher), and let them know that you’ll request a tour of their new school and a chance to meet their teacher beforehand.
• Ask what they like most about their community (e.g., the video game parlor), and assure them that those activities will be available in the new location.
• Use children’s literature. Books can help children prepare for and understand difficult situations. Story characters who model successful coping strategies are an excellent resource for children.
• If the new home is too far away for the entire family to visit, show the children pictures of the house, yard, and neighborhood. Videotape it if you can. Include pictures of each child’s new room.
• Ask the children to name the house with an inviting description, like “Oak Hill,” for the big trees and sloping lawn.
• Young children need protection from fear of the unknown. Listen carefully to their concerns and respond quickly to relieve their apprehensions. It’s normal, for instance, for a young child to worry that his or her toy box and shelf of stuffed animals might be left behind. Uncover those anxieties by actively involving your children in the process.
• Don’t just promise to let them decorate their own rooms – take them to the paint store and let them bring home color swatches. Shop together for bedspreads and towels and carpets.
• They must leave old friends behind. Plan a They must leave old friends behind. Plan a going-away party and let them invite their own guests to bring closure to that parting.
• Take pictures of everyone and make a photo album. If a child is old enough, send him or her out with a roll of film in the camera and the assignment to photograph the scenes he’ll want to remember.
• Give each of them extra screen time so they can keep in touch with people who are important to them.
• Buy a stack of picture postcards that show positive views of your new community and encourage them to write messages to the friends and relatives they left behind.
• Try to pack children’s things last and include them in the packing process.
• Keep security objects such as a favorite teddy bear or blanket close by. Keep your routine as normal as possible. Regular eating and nap times are important.
Encourage children to get outside and get to know the people and the neighborhood.
Teenagers:
Most teenagers see themselves as adult members of the family, and may feel disrespected if they don’t hear about the move early in the process.
Also, they’ll need time to work through the ordeal of leaving their friends. Ending relationships and saying goodbyes takes time, and is best done before the move. Some relationships will be extremely difficult to bring to an end, and these will require thoughtful, personalized planning. How, for instance, do you move a 17-year-old a thousand miles from her steady boyfriend? Even though teens seem more advanced in their social skills, they may worry a lot about making friends and fitting in. Visit their new school and check out local activities and employment opportunities for young people.
Communities have their own culture and way of doing things, and this is often reflected in the way teens dress. How they look is really important to teens. Before spending money on a new school wardrobe, your teen may want to observe what’s “in.” Purchasing a few new outfits can often help a teen feel more comfortable.
It’s particularly important to let teens known that you want to hear about, and respect, their concerns. Blanket assurances may seem to your teen like you’re dismissing his or her feelings. It may help to explain that the move is a type of rehearsal for future changes, like college or a new job.
At any age, get help if emotional problems arise. Ask a teacher for assistance. Consider professional counseling. Don’t let a serious problem slide.
Eventually, the strangeness and temporary discomforts should diminish. New friends will become good friends. The new house may become the family gathering place that your grandchildren will visit on holidays. In the long run, everything will work out fine.
Annual Equity Analysis
In our ever-changing world, it's critical to keep up-to-date while ensuring we are looking out for what's best in the long run. To do so, we answer these 5 crucial questions:
1. What homes/properties near you have sold for and how does this impact you today?
2. What new tax laws give you deductions or credits on home/property improvements?
3. What's happening in your neighborhood that will impact the value of your home/property?
4. What changes have occurred in your life that will alter your goals over the next 5 years, and how to prepare now and take full advantage of them?
5. What's occurring with your current mortgage and what new possibilities would benefit you now?
The next time you are in conversation with a loved one who is talking about their home/property value, remember the future belongs to the person who prepares. I'll be there to help.